Friday, June 25, 2010

Just Some Thoughts: The Right Woman - 6/25/10

At her simplest, a woman just wants to be loved...and that will show in her actions. Men blow ladies' heads up to make their knees weak...and instead of catching them when they fall, they simply take advantage when they're on the ground. So you end up with inflated egos and bruised hearts...THE recipe for being single. You can't get yourself involved with a woman over some surface trait like prettiness, well-dressed, mixed, or even intelligence; it has to be when you feel as though she, as a whole, is a wonderful person...the type of person that can forgive who you've been, accept who you are, and help you grow into who she'll love in the future, and vice versa. When you love a woman for those reasons, it's real. To forgive, accept, help to grow, and love a woman is to make her feel like she truly matters to someone in this world...and that's really big for them.

You have to find someone that brings out the best in you, rather than appealing to the worst in you. So many times, you see young men pursuing the wrong young ladies...and it's because having her would boost his ego, or give him some form of pleasure. A real man sees this error, and instead looks for someone that will bring out his best qualities...someone that will benefit from how he cares, someone that can appreciate how he loves, someone that can love him like he can.

-A. Lewis

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