"We fight to love, we fight to hate; yet when the battle is done, whether it's lost or won, we never account for the scars we accumulate. Emotional warfare is the most intense of any kind; it drains any heart and troubles any mind. Finding love is difficult, keeping it can be strenuous; but when you look back, will it all seem tenuous? Pick thy bouts wisely, each takes a toll; don't end up single, battered, and old."
-A. Lewis